Marriage?

as far as i'm concerned, i am still single. no wife, ex-wife, kids, or whatsoever. 

"don't you think that it's about time to get married? heck, you don't even have a girlfriend"

well, i don't deny that. there are a few of my friends of the same age who are already married. some of which already have a child. that being said, marriage is not as easy. its not something that you can just wing it. for starter, getting a true love is not easy. i guess we can always pretend to love someone under the pretext of boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. but ultimately, there are few things that need to be considered.

will you still be able to love her in 10, 30, 50 years time? 

will you be able to tolerate her flaws and imperfection for the rest of your life? 

more importantly, will she be able to do the same for you?

so until then, this is how i'll remain to be.